Few Random Thoughts..

We have no idea where life will take us.We have people around us who become such good friends and then we go our separate ways.We still are friends but we are remembered for the part we once played in each others life...Life will not usually give you a second chance to make a mark in the lives of so many people.

I was speaking to one of my best friends here and during our course of discussion it was mentioned that I was an integral part of her decision taking process.Quite a compliment for me I must accept. But I realized I would rather like her to be independent of my views when she takes any decision.May be a couple of years down the line I might not be here to help her.I do not know why but I would like my friends to miss me as.....Shishu helped me understand how to this rather than if Shishu was here he would have done this for me.In that way it makes me feel I made the tiniest bit of difference in their life.And then suddenly I realized that we have such small periods of time together with our friends sometimes before we go apart..but we still do not realize it until we are actually not together.Had I understood that the four years of college life will just end in a twinkle of eyes perhaps I would have atleast put some more effort to make our times together even more memorable....like leaving a mark behind.I know best way to do them is to do them spontaneously but still.....

Thinking about this I thought of the memories a few people has left behind in my life and they cheered me up...I even just laughed out remembering few funny and weird incidents of those golden days.I realized may be when they are sad and depressed they too think about memories I left behind for them and it felt so pleasing.And I felt like putting more effort to listening to the problems of my friends and trying to help them out than make them listen to mine(...THAT HUGE BORING LIST..) because life will never give me second chance to make a mark in their life.

Nothing will make me more happy if I am remembered by my friends when they are looking for some happy memories to cheer them up amidst of all the frustrations in life.

To all my friends who are not with me now but who are always with me as memories to cheer me up,to make me laugh and to make me love my life every moment......